Supersexyy admin abuse and disrespect

[Drahque]

- Being disrespectful:
Okay, so first of all Supersexyy have been extremely rude to me the last couple of weeks, for practically no reason. We haven't played any games today this season, but the other day he just went TOO far. I had been away for 2 days, since he had decided to ban me 72 hours (under circumstantial evidence), he was following wherever i posted on the forums. I tried to contribute to the community, by spending a fair amount of time thinking about a topic/idea Iznogood made, and even assembled previous knowledge/discussions that could be useful for the topic. But then a moderator, Supersexyy, who's supposed to respect everyone and their thoughts and make this a good place for each and one another, decides to make following comment:

Lol drahque............... I can't even be bothered to use a proper reply because your whole post is dumb.

This behavior really hurt me personally, so deep, that a moderator like Supersexxy (even global), is so immature to directly taunt/mock me for even trying to help this community! He even followed wherever I posted on the forums, first on a replay Gouus made, by judging me for testing out new builds and making his own conclusions, that I'm a bad player for doing that. I don't see who he think he is, to think that he can judge anyone like that. I'm referring to following two topics:
- viewtopic.php?f=72&t=13908
- viewtopic.php?f=83&t=13923

I then decided ask a moderator what he thought I should do, and he agreed with me, that this is indeed an acceptable way for a moderator to behave:
[spoiler=Private Message A]

Hey man, I don't know who to contact about this, but I feel you might be the right person. At least you're the only one who wants to at least try to view it from my site.

I've been away for 2 days, haven't done anything wrong or even hurt a fly in between, and when I do my best to try and support and give my view of a topic Iznogood created, both of them totally smear/smudge me out/down. This behavior really hurt me personally, so deep, that a moderator like Supersexxy (even global), is so immature to directly taunt/mock me for even trying to help this community! He even followed wherever I posted on the forums, first on a replay Gouus made, by judging me for testing out new builds and making his own conclusions, that I'm a bad player for doing that. I don't see who he think he is, to judge me like that.

I just want to make sure he understands that this behavior is not how a moderator should act, his job is to ensure that everyone is happy in the community. And that he have no reason to bully me, just because he doesn't like me or whatever reasons he might have. The thing is, I have no problem with anyone here, and I generally don't care how people have acted/been to me yesterday (my mind resets every day) and I do expect people not to taunt me for something I've done several days ago. The thing is, I've never even played a single game with Supersexxy, and yet he's still after me... I have no clue why.

So my question to you is, do you have any idea why he's treating me like this? And, can you get him to understand that it's not a cool way to act? I'd at least like an apology from him, to know that we're cool and that it's not a nice way to treat someone.

Feel welcome to say if you don't want to have a finger in this case, I'd understand you at least. But at least, let me hear your thoughts on the case / why he's behaving like this and what I should do in order to be given a fair chance again?

P.S. I've personally been thinking of making an apology topic, to explain my behavior and that I sometimes go too far in discussions and forget that there's people on the other side of the screen, who doesn't want be so technical/detailed/thoughtful with every decision as I'm. Do you think this would be a good idea, to be given another chance? Because I really feel as if a lot of people have the wrong impression of me. =//

Thanks for your time. (:[/spoiler]

[spoiler=Private Message B]

Hey,

I agree with you that Supersexyy is just flaming you for no reason (and Iznogood too). As for Iznogood, as soon as he goes out of line he will be punished.

I have tried to get into other admins' heads to say you are not evil, but especially Supersexyy keeps thinking everything you do has a bad or evil intention and I don't know why. I am going to try and convince him again of this.

If he keeps posting nasty things about you can make a post in the complaint section and I will support you.

Lastly, I don't think you need to apologize for anything. I don't see what you have done wrong to apologize for. Just stick to the rules we have and don't flame anyone (and I haven't seen you flame anyone once) and you are fine [/spoiler]

[spoiler=Private Message A]

Hey thanks a lot for the fast answer, really appreciated.

I have no clue why anyone would think I'm evil, maybe because I have a different atypical logic / isn't neurotypical or that I've another type of humor. No clue. And I don't think I'll be able to find an answer myself anyways.

Hmm, sometimes I might be too direct, which some people find offensive. I need to improve my way of communicating in-game without sounding like a 'general'. This is also something that Supersexxy seem to have a problem with (being too direct). Anyways, the idea for an 'apology' would be a way to get a fresh start, or to let people know, that I'm having the best intentions of this community. At least that's what Iznogood suggested me, that I'd need a new 'start'. Or is this wrong?


I'm generally against posting a complaint, I think there's often a better way to solve problems than reporting/banning/punishing people for their actions. That's also why I contacted you in the first place. If you feel it's a good idea / that Supersexxy won't misunderstand / misinterpret what I'm writing as a bad thing, you're more than welcome to show him. Nothing I say/do is a secret. I'm a very honest person.

Again, thanks for your time/support/help. (:

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As you can read, I tried to approach this on the easy way, and had a short conversation with Supersexyy in the chat channel. But it just seemed as if he was ignoring me and it doesn't seem as if he cared about the PM. So it seems as if I'd have to go further in order to make him understand that this isn't the way to treat someone his the League.


- Abusing admin power:
Anyways, as if this wasn't enough, then he also decided to use admin for his own good today, and stacked a team in a Lihl 2v2 game - by switching Frans (969 and 2 games) with Iznogood (1088 and 110 games) in order to have the 2 strongest and most experienced players on his team. I find this a really unacceptable way to treat new players like Frans, that he has to treated like that. And on top of that, I even told Supersexyy that it's AGAINST the rules to switch 2 players who isn't on the same team, even if everyone agrees to it. In this case, he decided to ignore me yet again, which just show he only care about himself. I'm referring to following game:
- https://entgaming.net/customstats/lihl/game/1873026/

I'd also have a picture of the lobby chat where Supersexyy switches teams and their Elo at the time this game was played:

SCROLL DOWN - In order to see the swap

Supersexyy swapping teams(2).png (460.01 KiB) Viewed 859 times

Notice the time and elo difference

Lihl83a's elo at the time of creation.png (259.35 KiB) Viewed 859 times

- Summary (tldr;):
As you can see, Supersexyy have totally smudged a person down for giving his view on a suggestion, followed him on forums and mocked him for everything he's said or done. Afterwards ignored another admins suggestion, ignored what a member had to say, and carelessly ignoring one of the most essential parts of Lihl - our Auto-Balance function - by stacking the 2 highest Elo's and most experienced players on his own team, even though he was advised NOT to do so.

I highly hope that some sort of actions will be taken, because I wouldn't wanna spend much more time here, if it's acceptable that a moderator mock a person for trying to help the community or use his admin powers for his own good.

Finally; THANKS for you time reading this complaint/report.

[beerisforbears]

@supersexyy

[supersexyy]

Auto balance isn't an essential part of LIHL.
Why do you think the !challenge command exists?

As for the rest of the complaint - I'll let the other LIHL mods comment, no point handling a complaint against myself.

[BurritoCarcass]

Hey there @drahque

I apologize for supersexy's behavior and I hope that this is stopped immediately. Continue monitoring his actions, but don't provoke them. Again, I hope other moderators treat you appropriately and thanks for posting. Good luck!

[karasu.]

I'm going to make a detailed post later on but I think @Agreements or @cyberpunk could judge this better than I could. I'm going to look into this and edit my post later on.

[Drahque]

Auto balance isn't an essential part of LIHL.

But it's a rule you should have read as an admin, especially with as much time as you spend on the in the "LIHL Ban/Unvouch" section, I'm sure you've stumbled apart this topic (which you also most likely read, when you became moderator - since you must read all rules):
- viewtopic.php?f=85&t=11303

As you can see, it's a rule of LIHL:

The game owner (usually the highest ELO player, and printed in brackets in the signed users list) must start the game (!start). If there are small issues like with the slots, then the game owner is responsible for fixing it (!swap 1 2 will swap slot s1 with slot s2). If someone doesn't like their color or a team agrees to change their lanes, !swap can also be used. However, !swap should not be used to switch players who are on different teams.